On Brexit: It’s personal

Stephen Tall something that resonates very strongly with my own situation:

It’s not pretty, I know. But I can’t apologise, I’m afraid: if you voted Leave you’re diminished in my eyes.

Because for me it’s personal. My partner is Spanish. She first came to England on an Erasmus scholarship. She later returned to work as a teaching assistant in Oxford, where we met. In a parallel Brexit universe we would never have got together. In the Brexit universe to come, we will have to queue separately in the airport, she with our son who (thankfully) also has a Spanish passport.

In my case, I’m English. I live in Belgium with a Frenchwoman (who also benefited from the Erasmus programme) and our three sons, who are more Belgian than either of us. For over a decade, nationality has not been something that we have need to give much though to, and now it’s a problem.

I realise that there are plenty of people facing a far more difficult position than I am, but I cannot bring myself to sympathise with or even respect the people who lined up with the likes of Farage and Galloway to throw everything in the air in pursuit of wishful thinking, political fantasies and outright nastiness.

And for what?

My kids have dual nationality and will be able to study, work and live wherever they choose. For most citizens of the UK, though, your kids have had these opportunities taken away from them.